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Are you verified?

My ID on P411 is P267838. My profile on The Erotic Review 341645. My photos on all sites that offer photo/age verification have all been verified.

What are your expectations of me?

I expect you to present me with my fees at the beginning of our time together. If we are in public, please be discreet and give it to me in a small gift bag, book or greeting card. I expect that you be a gentleman at all times and respect any boundaries I have. To make our date as enjoyable as possible, please be well groomed, freshly showered and have fresh breath. I am 420 and social alcohol friendly but any drug harder than that will end our date.

Do you like to travel?

Yes, I love to travel. With enough notice, I can fly to meet you anywhere! I expect to be reimbursed for all travel expenses and you must schedule a minimum of a 4 hour date with travel expenses and 50% paid upfront.

What is the best way to contact you?

The only way to reach me is via e-mail. If you feel like you require a conversation longer than a few minutes before our date, please let me know and we can discuss adding on a telephone call or texting package for your comfort.

Are your rates negotiable?

No. Don’t try to negotiate with me; I find it offensive, will end communication immediately and will not see you.

What is your personality like?

I am friendly and warm. From the moment I greet you to the end of our date you’ll feel like you are catching up with an old friend. I love to laugh and chat and will talk about almost anything. I am a wonderful and fun conversationalist, have a full life outside of Kate and have had a lot of colorful life experiences. The best way to get a glimpse of my personality is to follow me on Twitter or to listen to one of the podcasts I’ve been on.

How Far in Advance Should I Book My Appointment?

I prefer a minimum of 24 hours notice. I book 6 months in advance (sometimes even more) It is best to contact me well in advance to ensure my availability.

How do I pay a deposit?

I accept gift cards, bitcoin, e-transfers, and cash. Once we confirm our date, I will email you instructions. If you have a preference please let me know with your date request.

Can I pay completely upfront?

Absolutely!

If that is your preference, please let me know. I have several easy ways to pay the donation or the entire contribution upfront and we can remove the awkwardness of the envelope.

Can we text each other to get to know each other before the date?

I prefer to keep my emails, texting, DMs to a minimum. If you really would like to get to know each other before our date, I will consider adding a texting package for you. Otherwise, I share my number the day of the date for coordination purposes.

Do you have reviews?

I believe what happens behind closed doors is private. If you would like to document our time together, I encourage you to write a testimonial for my site. In efforts to respect my privacy, I request that you withhold graphic details from all online forums.

What happens if I have to cancel?

In the unlikely event that I need to cancel our date, you will be completely refunded. If you cancel with 72 hours or more of our time together your deposit will be refunded in full. If you need to cancel with 24 hours to 72 hours, 50% of the booking will be owed. Less than 24 hours of the booking, the fee will due in full.

Should you refuse payment due after a cancellation, despite my collection efforts, your name will be added to the blacklist services I participate in.

Why didn’t you respond to my emails?

If your email is inappropriate in any way, it is discarded. Due to travel and work obligations please allow adequate time for me to respond. If I get the impression that you just want to chat and are deemed a “time waster” your message will go unanswered.

Can we meet briefly for coffee or cocktails to see if we get along?

Absolutely, but my posted rates apply to any activities we do. So no matter what the activity, from coffee to martinis and even naked twister, my rate doesn’t change.

Don’t worry about not getting along. Unless your a pompous tool with no sense of humor, I’m sure we will get along.

How long should I wait for you to reply to my inquiry?

I try to respond within 24 hours, but it depends on my schedule. If you want me to respond in the quickest way, send your screening information with your inquiry.

When can we meet?

I need time to conduct screening and check references. Sometimes this can be accomplished in the same day, but I prefer advance notice. I schedule appointments 6 months in advance. If you are unwilling to send me this information, please don’t request an appointment. If I am not able to verify you, I am not able to see you. I do not make exceptions to my screening policy.

Do you like gifts?

I love gifts but like tips, they are not required or expected. If you wish to indulge me – I would be delighted to receive a gift (or gift certificate) from my wish list. I always send a special selfie as my version of a little thank you.

I have never seen a provider before. Will you still see me?

Yes! I am newbie friendly. As long as I can screen and verify who you are we can plan a date. In lieu of provider references, I may ask for work information, social media links and/or a photo of you and your identification card. This is not to invade your privacy, but to ensure my safety. If that isn’t acceptable to you, please find another provider who cares less about her safety. I don’t want to be intrusive, but I do want to ensure my safety. I can’t be comfortable with you if I can’t ensure my safety.